Regina's Journal

Safety at work or school: • Alert all co-workers, schoolmates and on-site security staff about your situation. Give them as much information as you can about the stalker, including a photograph of him/her, and a description of any vehicles s/he may drive. Ask them to notify you or call the police if they see him/her. […]

The next several blogs will have suggestions on how to keep yourself safe if you are being stalked or harassed. Stalkers can be someone who you are/were in a relationship with, a coworker, acquaintance or even a stranger. These are general suggestions which may not be appropriate in every situation – please pick and choose […]

Any skill set will improve with regular practice; typing, shooting, cooking, driving, and observation skills. As you go from one activity to another in your day, observe the people around you. Visualize what you would do if: that man on the corner grabbed your hair as you walked by; you noticed a van following you; your friend’s […]

This post is in light of February being Teen Dating Violence Awareness month. While there are many warning signs of abuse, here are ten of the most common abusive behaviors: •Checking your cell phone or email without permission •Constantly putting you down •Acting extremely jealous or insecure •Having an explosive temper •Demanding to know where […]

As seen on TV’s 48 Hours Live to Tell, Adam Lane invaded a home at 4 in the morning through an unlocked door. Here’s the link to the story: http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2011/02/26/48hours/main20036509.shtml?tag=exclsv Use this opportunity to help your friends and family remember the inportance of locking their doors.  

How can people find me on the Internet? It’s a good rule of thumb to assume that anything you put on the Internet could be discovered. Even if you are sure your profiles and email are safe, there are computer hackers and computer spyware that could potentially access your information. Read more about this on […]

Something to think about… If a would be attacker(s) is following you while you’re driving what would you do? Panic? I certainly hope not! Remember, you have to out smart the attacker. Remain calm, aware and THINK. 1) Do not go home or to a loved ones home. Go to a well lit and populated, public location; […]

– Inspect the ATM, gas pump, or credit card reader before using it…be suspicious if you see anything loose, crooked, or damaged, or if you notice scratches or adhesive/tape residue. – When entering your PIN, block the keypad with your other hand to prevent possible hidden cameras from recording your number. – If possible, use […]

This new song by Selena Gomez embraces what I share with every lady attending my seminars. I hope you enjoy it. http://www.vevo.com/watch/selena-gomez-and-the-scene/who-says/USH5V1121237?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=watch&utm_campaign=selena-gomez-who-says              

Decide, commit and you will succeed at finding the fighter deep inside. • Realize you are worth protecting and discover your strength. • Always be thinking about your well-being. • Recognize and utilize your ability to perceive threats. • Think about yourself as a woman of energy, strength and determination. • Do not allow verbal […]

“Oh that every woman knew how to defend herself AND WOULD!”  ~Regina Self-defense: the right to defend oneself with whatever force is reasonably necessary against actual or threatened violence. 90% of self-defense is awareness which stems from common sense and education. ‎47% of robbery targets find themselves facing an armed attacker, only 7% of rape […]